TMI Alert: How Can Oversharing Impact Your Future Life?
In our present digital age, where social media platforms are a hub for connection, it's crucial to understand the implications of oversharing, particularly for our kids.
A hoax is a false and fabricated story, but one which claims to be true. Sometimes it’s a harmless prank, but other times it can lead to serious consequences that might damage somebody’s life or health. For instance, this could happen if a story claimed that something, such as a certain food, cured cancer when in fact it has no such effects.
Even educated adults sometimes struggle to spot hoaxes and fake news. So how can we expect our kids to do it?
Back in the day, your grandparents might have unknowingly spread fake stories or urban legends about some family member’s adventures and experiences. There was simply no way to check grandpa’s war, hunting or fishing tales. But most of these stories would have stayed only within your family.
With the emergence of email, hoaxes and fake news started to spread nationwide and even worldwide. The rise of social media means misleading information can now go viral even more rapidly. Witness, for instance, the momo or Blue Whale challenges that frightened parents around the globe. The latter started in Russia and went truly global. It soon spread to several European countries, India and the United States.
There are several reasons why hoaxes and fake stories exist. The less harmful ones can start as a joke; the internet just gives them more life. The goal of the more elaborate ones is often simply to make money. If you help share a fake news website, the owner of that site can make more money from online ads or by selling products that claim to offer almost magical results. Such claims are unproven, of course. Other hoaxes seek to advance a particular political or social agenda while masquerading as impartial news.
There’s plenty of misleading material online. Liking, sharing, or retweeting such content only helps to amplify it.
People who have less experience with the internet – like children – might have a more difficult time spotting hoaxes and fake news. There is no reason not to talk about this topic with your children. Don’t wait for another hoax to spread before you warn your family; your children might become a victim of it before you realize.
So how do you help them? The advice offered in the list below won’t catch every hoax, but it will provide plenty of warning that you might be dealing with one.
Teach your children to always look at who has shared and published a specific story. How is the story written? Is the language sensational, or full of loaded terms trying to create an emotional response? Creators of these stories use certain words to evoke feelings like shock, terror or sorrow. This encourages the reader to switch off the rational part of their brain and act without thinking.
Remind your children to always ask for evidence. And keep in mind that even serious media outlets can sometimes publish incorrect information. Teach your family to ask for numbers, studies and information that can substantiate why a claim is true.
Most shared hoaxes and fake news always include some visual “proof,” like a photo or a video. Show your kids how to zoom into an image and look for visual clues like street or shop signs, car license plates or billboards. If a viral story claims to be from Israel but the street signs are in Spanish, it’s probably fake.
Another great tool is reverse image searching. There are several search engines, including Google, and dedicated websites where you simply upload or paste a link to an image and the result shows you where the picture has been used. Sometimes the result will lead you directly to a website that collects information on hoaxes and fake news. Simply look for “reverse image search” online to get started.
Most parent want their kids to behave well and to do what they or other responsible adults say. But before you allow your kids to use the internet and social media, you should teach them to exercise a healthy level of skepticism. Emphasize that not everything that an adult, family member or friend has shared on the internet is automatically true.
There are many accounts on social media that specialize in sharing hoaxes and fake news. These can be bots, operated automatically by algorithms. Show your children how to spot them. They use the same sensational and loaded language as fake news websites and typically share many of the same posts at the same times throughout the day. Illustrate this to your kids by showing them the timelines of some suspicious social media accounts.
As with everything, children tend to mirror their parents’ behavior. If you don’t want your kids to believe in hoaxes, or share them, do not share them yourself – at home or on the internet. If you have done so by accident, explain to them that it was a mistake, why it was a hoax and why you fell for it. With open communication, you can help your children to learn from the examples – good and bad – of the adults around them, including you!
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