| Grooming

Online predator busted after being intercepted by tech-savvy mom

Ondrej Kubovič | 01 Sep 2022

Being a tech-savvy parent is one way to make your child’s online experience more secure. An example of online grooming surfaced a while ago in Colonie, New York, when a watchful mom uncovered and helped to arrest an online predator.

The mother who asked to remain anonymous was browsing through her 15-year-old daughters Facebook page when she came across a message from an adult man she didnt know. Her suspicions about the man were confirmed when she texted, pretending to be her daughter.

The man replied immediately, and the content of their chat rapidly became more sexual. Luckily, the man gave away some details about himself during the conversation.

Armed with this information the mother launched an online investigation of her own and, after some digging, found what she was looking for. Dennis Williams, the man on the other side of the chat was using his real name and was actually a 33-year-old convicted sex offender.

Identifying this individual would not have been possible had the mother been unaware of the risks online or not monitored her childs activity on social networks. But the latter, in particular, can be very time consuming. Using parental control tools can make it easier and more effective, by automatically alerting parents to irregularities.

With the help of this modern and increasingly widespread technology, you can also get a feel for what your youngsters are up to when they surf the web, to whom they talk, and how much time they spend online.

In this case, after uncovering the mans background, the tech-savvy mom immediately contacted local police. Investigators continued the conversations she had begun, eventually receiving naked photos of the offender and arranging a meeting in the name of the child.

When Williams showed up, he was handcuffed and later jailed without bail. The police commended the mother for doing a great parenting job.

They [the mother and daughter] have a good enough relationship where the mom was monitoring her child’s internet activities, and in this case, it prevented what could have possibly been a very bad decision on her part as well as a criminal act on his,said Colonie Police Lt. Robert Winn for ABC10 News, which reported the story.

Having a good relationship with your children and some basic knowledge about technology are excellent foundations for helping them use the internet safely. Below are some age-specific measures you can take:

Kids up to 11 years old:

  • Children should share their email and social media passwords with their parents
  • Internet use should be with a good parental control app

From 11 to 13 years old kids shouldn’t have to share their passwords but parents should:

  • Establish common friendships on social networks
  • Use a parental control app to set times for web access and general monitoring
  • Have regular conversations with children about internet use and potential dangers
  • Let children view YouTube only via the parent’s account

About the author

Ondrej Kubovič /
Security Awareness Specialist

Ondrej has worked at ESET for more than three years as a Security Awareness Specialist, which requires him to follow, write and talk about the latest cybersecurity threats...

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